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My friend was laid off, what do I say?
It is unfortunate, but becoming more frequent. More and more workers are being downsized or laid off from their jobs. It can be devastating when it happens to someone you know and is close to. What do you say?
First of all, don't avoid the issue. It will probably alter how you spend time together because of their need to job search and save money. So lend a shoulder to cry on, or just be there to provide a pick me up.
You should also be careful about not inviting your friends to do something because they may not be spending as much money on going out. You may think that you are being considerate, but ceasing to make plans with that person is a painful reminder that they are not currently working. So maybe cook dinner at home and rent movies for a change.
Also, don't hesitate to offer to help with their job search. Losing a job can be overwhelming, and some workers have a hard time focusing and deciding where to start. So offer to help your friend become organized and suggest Web sites, organizations or other possible job opportunities.
Lastly, if you are a member of a networking organization, extend an invitation to your friend. Even if you don't have experience in the same industry, networking anywhere could lead to a new opportunity. You can help break the ice by introducing your friend to other members, and they may know someone who can help your friend find a new job.
Layoffs are tough, but the bottom line when it comes to a friend losing their job is to just be a friend back.
Posted by Steve Wajda on January 6, 2009 at 9:49 AM
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Great advice Seymour! I was recently laid off and the people that offered the support you suggested stick out in my mind as great friends. It is a time when you realize who really did care about you. On another note, I had a couple of co-workers who asked me out for a drink shortly after the lay off. Neither of them offered to even buy one of my drinks! It is not so much the issue of the money but the thought is what counts. They very well could have been one of the people laided off. Sometimes my generation can not step away from thinking about themselves. The best thing you can do is try to think of how you would like to be treated in the same situation.
Posted by nicole on January 25, 2009 2:58 PM